Heartbreak

Every single person under the sun will go through the pain of heartbreak in his/her life. The pain is one thing which everyone from all walks of life, can relate to.No one in the world will be able to instantly take away your tears or heal the wounds that have been inflicted upon you. Only time can help here. However, what is hardly ever said about heartbreak is , the lessons we learn and take away in the times of emotional tragedy.

Without love for the other, there would never be this pain. And, without heartbreak, there would never be such amazing love. This may sound like the ultimate paradox, but losing someone you love proves to be an incredible learning and growing experience. You may be reading this thinking “Fuck you, you bastard. My heart’s in shambles right now and you want me to think this is going to turn into a good thing?” As confusing and almost insane as it may sound, having this happen may change you in so many different ways. One thing which it will do is definitely bring you out of your comfort zone. Your preconceived notions about people will change.

Having a hard goodbye, to someone you love, is one of the toughest thing to do but moving on with your life will only enhance the times you have with other loved ones. Going forward it will only deepen every minute you spend with the people about whom you truly care. 

One important lesson which you will learn is to be able to start forgiving with more ease and forgetting about the things that don’t really matter so much. Your endurance to bear this hardship will only make you a stronger person. You will be able to make out whom you should let in and who can’t stay in your life.This will open your whole life up to more and more great experiences because you will be able to share it with people who genuinely care for you and whom you really care for.

Nevertheless, it’s not a perfect system and it should not happen to anyone. Sometimes we become absolutely helpless. But, there will be another tomorrow, another day felt with warmth,affection,passion and love will embrace you one day..

Just remember that your bumps and bruises will heal and the scars will faint over the period of time. Time will help you heal, and heartbreak itself will help you grow. In what is, undeniably, the hardest, most painful life lesson one could ever learn, heartbreak will help mould the rest of your life. Only if you don't let the heartbreak get converted into a setback, it will teach you to love better and love more and more importantly value love.......