Sunday, August 17, 2014

Fear... the inevitable...

As a kid, I read Gurudev Rabindranath Tagore’s poem, “Where the mind is without fear”. I was quite inspired by that, the kind of dream he saw for India. Sadly, attaining freedom hasn’t exactly freed our minds of fear. In fact, no person, no country in the whole world is free of fear. It’s a fear driven world we are living in, where the government fears loss of power, businessman and service person fear inflation or recession, students fear the competition, lovers fear commitment, and the list can go on. What can be the origin of this invisible but ubiquitous devil? Or is it even a devil? If we go back in time, we will see that it was the fear factor that sowed the seeds of civilization. The fear of living alone and being exposed to carnivores made the prehistoric man settle and form communities. This gave them a sense of protection. Emotional insecurity made them nurture the concept of family. The destructive forces of nature, like storms, floods, eclipses made the man create the concept of God. As he saw how helpless he becomes in the night due to lack of visibility, he developed the fear for the dark night. And when he saw how the rising sun renders away the darkness, he started worshipping the sun. Further, the fear of invasion and encroachment made the man draw boundaries, invent weapons and as time advanced they started raging wars, killing people to assume power. Wars were fought in pursuit of wealth, slaves and land and to build and strengthen huge empires because the kings feared loss of power to some other king. In present scenario, wars and other violent activities occur broadly due to two reasons, first, to control the trade, especially oil and nuclear energy and second, to attain religious or regional superiority. All this is bound to happen, because we are insecure beings by nature. With time, some fears disappear and new ones replace them. For example, after the invention of electricity, man is no more afraid of the night, but over-consumption of electricity and many other energy supplies has led to depletion of our non-conventional and conventional energy sources. And now, the biggest fear is of losing our home planet. Even the nation which considers itself the most superior nation in the world, US, lives in fear of losing power and allies. Its relations which India, Pakistan and the obstinate China, are all muddled up. It cannot fully support one without upsetting the other. So there is huge risk of losing allies in Asia. These are just a couple of examples. There are many such things happening at national and even personal level. Fear of emotional inconsistency, betrayal or burden of responsibility makes couples chicken out of marriage and go for live-in relationship. To cover up, they would say, we want it the ‘no-strings-attached’ way. Students, afraid of facing failure, commit suicide. The fear factor, that helped creating civilizations, is now set to destroy them. Philosophically, the world is driven by two forces, love and fear. But in the modern world, fear seems to be out-scoring love. We cannot kill our fear, but we can be selective as to which fear we should succumb to, for example, choose between peer pressure and the rightful duty. Only then can we use our fear for our benefit and convert our weakness into our strength.